Why wait

So many people want to try each other out in a relationship. For some it works but for the majority it doesn't. For those guys that take care of responsibilities this is not about you. Too many guys just want pleasure in the bed room. They don't realize the pressure they put on a women. She may think ok if I do this it will make him happy. There are women who think like that too. I am coming from a perspective of if I make him happy. This all leads to bad habits. In the end she can become pregnant and he can run off scared. Then the fun and games are over. It makes a kid wonder and feel different then his other friends who have both parents. I will not support someone who is a dead beat father figure. Don't tell me I am stereo typing cause this is my life experience. Make sure he has a ring on it and has walked down the isle. Relationships are a commitment. Women should be treated delicately and not as a lustful object. Men need to grow up and realize what they are getting into. Children should not be seen as an accident but as a blessing. Child support can be helpful but sometimes a women can tell when she won't be getting any. Maybe one day my family will be complete but for now we rely on God and those family members who listen.